يا تفك بابك وتفتخر يا تسده وتستتر

وقفت كثير عن الكتابه بسبب كثرة الانشغالات .. ولكن من كم يوم استوقفتني حوار مع صديقه مقربه لي عن حال الاعراس في اليمن او عدن تحديدا لاني ما اعرف كيف تتم بقية الاعراس في المحافظات الباقيه

بالرغم من انها من عائله في نعمه من الله والحمدلله وهي الابنه الكبرى ومحبوبة الاسره الا انه نعااااااام ماعد تشتيش تعمل حفلة الغسل التقليديه الملازمه للزفاف وتنعمل قبله بيومين

مش عشان حاجه وانما بس عشان مافي حد يقارنها بغيرها من العرايس اللي عملو غسل ..مش عشان شي  بس بسبب الحاجات الزياده اللي استوت تنعمل بحفلة  الغسل

للتوضيح فقط .. زمااان ايام امي وامك وام جيرانك كان الغسل عباره عن لمة حريم العيله والجيران والاصحاب ويجيبو فنانه شعبيه ويوزعو من قاروره قاروره كندا دراي وكيس صغير مشموم وفل لو موسمه مع قليل شكليت

نرجع لموضوعنا .. الان استوى حفل الغسل لازم تتوزع فيه حاجات ثانيه يا غداء يا عشاء ومابينهما يكون لاااازم وجود الهدايا .. مثلا مجمره بخور صغيره هديه او صندوق فيبه مضرب عطر صغير او شمعه ابو قلب … الخ

واصبح الموضوع منافسه ومن اللي يقدر يعمل حاجه احسن من الثاني اكثر مما انه هي فرحة ومشاركة الناس الفرحه ..

كان باعتقادي انه الناس بيجو عشان يشاركو الفرحه ولكن اكتشفت بعد حضوري بعض الاعراس انه الناس يجو عشان يشلو الهدايا والعشا ! يعني اذا  اهل العروسه ماوزعوش ولا جابو هديه او مضرب عطر ولا قرمين فوفل بيبداو الحريم بالحشوووووش … ” او او او شفتي ولا وزعو شي بالرغم من انه الام والاب الاثنين يشتغلو او في رواية اخرى اعمامهم بالخليج وماقدروش يمدو حتى قاروره مي بجمب القصعه الشراب امانه اشترغنا ايش داااااااااا ” هذا اقل شي طبعا

نرجع مره ثاني لصديقتي اللي صدمتني بكلامها … مجتمع يصعب ارضائه ومافي عروسه تقبل تكون اقل من الثانيه ومساكين الاهل اللي يدفعو وهي اللي تربش حاله بايش بيعجب الناس وايش اللي مش على الموضه انه يتقرب وقت العرس

لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله … المشكله مش بده كله .. المشكله بالبنات المنكسرات اللي من عائلات متعففه وعائلات مستوره الحال

عائلات تشتي تفرح ببنته بس ترجع وتقول ” يا تفك بابك وتفتخر او تسده وتستتر ” وللاسف اصبحو ماعاد يعملو مثل اول عشان مايشتو يفتضحو قدام الناس انه مش معاهم شي يقدموه زي بقية حفلات الغسل حق الناس الثانيه

قد يكون كلامي الان ملخبط ولكنه شعبكات في راسي مش عارفه الاقيله بداية الخيط … ايش الحل يا بشر ؟ خلاص يعني يا نسوي هيصه وزمبليطه ونشتري ونوزع هدايا  بمئات الالاف وبالنهايه تنكرع بالكبت وينسوها الناس , او انه يسوو شي بسيط ويخلو الناس يضحكو عليهم ؟؟

مجتمع مضحك مبكي الصراحه

حوشنااااا

لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله

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الى متى ؟

الى متى حرية التعبير عن الراي في بلدنا تعتبر جريمه ويتم استباحة دم من يعبر عنها ! الا نامت اعين الجبناء بما فعلوا امس فيكي يا عدن

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عجبـــي على شعبي !!!

الاخوه الانفصاليين قالوا انه من 2007 وهم معتبرين 13 يناير ذكرى للتصالح والتسامح بين الجنوبيين واللتي كانت لاتقل هذي الحرب الاهليه وحشيه وعنجهيه وظلم ومجازر عن اللي حصلت خلال الوحده في حكم علي صالح ! فليش قدروا يخلو يعملو تسامح وتصالح لمجازر يناير وماقدرو يعملو تسامح وفرصه ثانيه للوحده من غير علي صالح ؟؟
عجــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــبي على شعبي !!!

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A Southern Yemeni Girl (Thoughts-part 1)

THOUGHTS (PART 1 )

As a young yemeni girl who is seeking for a new change , freedom of speech and above all Real DEMOCRACY , I really believe in the Southern case and its demands but not the separation .  we’ve been through a lot in southern Yemen specially where i am from Aden as it was one of the best cities in the Arabian peninsula and we all know what it turned to be and for those who don’t know ; it turned to be a piece of crap but wait a minute … isn’t it the same thing in all Yemen !

To be fair and honest with myself and others ,  Yemen is nothing but 2 parts united together to create a new united Yemen and one part  of them (southern) had lost all its elements as a part of this unity ! lost its dignity and left out as a margin BUT again above all now it is one Yemen ! the regime was the bad guy not the northern people  ! so lets give it another chance lets give ourselves as one nation another chance because the whole country needs to rise up .

The demands which claiming for the separation is becoming so annoying  specially as they are speaking on behalf of all the southern people ! who gave them the right anyway ! i am a yemeni girl from the south but i want the Unity ! so you can’t say all southern people demanding for sepraton !

And now they running this TV Channel calling for sepration called “Aden Live”                          who’s behind it ? and why ? don’t tell me the people ! as they can’t effort their daily basic needs ;  so how about a TV channel !! C’mon people  ! until when you’ll remain as puppets for the Dirty Political players ! Wake Up Southern Educated People please !

Yemen needs a new suite although to be fair the capital should move to Aden to continue with the Untiy we need a Federal system and no doubt that we will face a lot of challenges to get over all the Obstacles that the previous regime plant within the people but I believe afterword we would leave like Fairy Tales happily ever after ( I might sound extra enthusiastic but this is what i call the Real Change’s spirit ! )


Child’s headband reads in Arabic, “One Yemen

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Getting to Zer0

” Getting to ZERO ” that was the Theme of the project which Roa Shababeya initiative held on Sunday regarding the World AIDS Day 2011 . .

1- ZERO new HIV infections.

2-ZERO discrimination

3-ZERO AIDS-related deaths

4-ZERO tolerance for gender-based violence.

Such a topic to be discussed in public was a challenge for the team as too many people think that there are no HIV cases recorded in Yemen ; so it was a bit hard to talk about it and educate people about such a thing …. but surprisingly many people in the street positivly responded to the campaign . . the campaign was divided into many parts . . a chairty dish and the income money would go to people who live with AIDS/HIV and also educational and awareness part which was like questions to the community and who would answer them correctly would get a present ( a game about AIDS )

too many leaflets were distrbutied about the same topic also almost everyone passed in the street that day wore the Red Ribbon plus people wrote their message to the AIDS holders and another message as if they were AIDS holders . . 

although this event was prepared in less than 5 days but it amazingly Succeeded

and it is all because of the high spirit of  Roa shahbabeya’s family  . .

with such youth spirits i am sure that Yemen is in a very good and caring hands

        

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Give them half a chance !

What I really don’t understand is Clinton’s objection or the USA’s objection represented by Clinton ! how comes the country of “Freedom of speech and the country which claims to be the world’s leader and the Freedom supporter and the Justice defender ! how comes they are asking the UNESCO to pull back their vote for Palestine for the membership or else their action will lead to Budget Reduction  ; so is that a clear threaten ?

USA let me tell you something ! let them vote for whatever they want or for whatever side they think it’s right  ;  as long as you were the one who gave them this right to vote ! I guess you are nothing different from Ali Abdullah Saleh ! two faces for the same coin … I guess Saleh was a good student !!

I think USA is blackmailing UNISCO over Palestine membership.This is way out of line. just give them even half a chance which was given to Israel ! i guess they deserve so !

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Barbie dolls . . .

Today I am really frustrated ! what’s wrong with our Arab youth ! all what they do think of is their outfits or new look ! and mostly they do rate each other with the phone they have !!!

I definitely understand that people are categorized into many categories but I don’t understand when the Banality is one of these categorizes !

few months back I joined some few  girlish groups on Facebook and that’s when I started wondering am I a female or not ! all what they are talking about and discussing is their beauty !! they ask where can they buy a Gucci original bag or Christian Dior’s Mascara ! wake up girls ! and  how about looking for a bank account to donate for Somalia with only 5 % of  Gucci’s bag for another female in Somalia to feed her child . or how about visiting the IDP’s in your area as Yemen is full of IDP’s now !

why don’t they get involved in social works ? if they can’t donate their money then donate your time and do some voluntary work ! your country need it …. Yemen need it !
yet I can’t believe my experience in that Facebook group ! Blondes of Yemen  ! that’s all what I can say about it …..

either I got the wrong definition of being a female or they understand it in the wrong way ….. how to fix your hair how to match your makeup with your outfit , what eye shadow suits you the most …. I know that ; as a girl I have to ask and do all of these things but not 24/7 !

If these interests for being a girl;  then what’s the interests for being a human being ? Live your Life! Life isn’t just being in a house treated like a Barbie doll … don’t be just like a furniture to decorate your husband’s house with … be a piece of art and amaze the whole world with your thoughts !  life is to know how to live it ! and also life is about how to take and most of all how to GIVE specially when it comes to your community and environment please don’t be selfish toward them  . .

P.S  I am just expressing my unorganized thoughts

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